Why My BoyFriend is a Horrible Father

Since I have a list on here that contains many of the reasons I’m a horrible mother, I thought it only fitting that I mention all the reasons my boyfriend is a bad father. And man are there a lot! He has to be the worst possible dad. I mean come on, any dad that sacrifices so much for his children has to be a real piece of work.

People love to point out how we’re SO bad at what we do. I think we deserve awards for being such horrible parents. What do you think? Maybe “Most Horrible Parents Ever”?

• My boyfriend is a bad father because he takes his son and daughter to their activities each week. Without complaint. Even when he’s sick.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he pays for both of his kids’ activities, even when he can’t afford to. When they need additional gear, he gets that too.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he pays his child support every week. And he never complains about it.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because when his kids are sick, he will sit up with them.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he sits up with my son when Blake is sick to make sure he’s okay and to offer me support if I need it.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he loves me and is teaching our children what a healthy relationship is like. How dare he teach our children how to behave in a relationship so it’s successful!
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he works long, odd hours at times to guarantee his children have all they need in life. And even the things they don’t need but want.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he worries about his children every second they are not with him.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he makes all four of our kids pick up after themselves.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he teaches our children responsibility and independence and to think for themselves.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he takes time off from work when possible to be at any school functions, sports games, TKD testing and recitals.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because sometimes he has to miss functions because he has to work and knows if he doesn’t work, he doesn’t get paid, which means he can’t support them.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he doesn’t correct his daughter when she burps louder than him. Instead he high fives her.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he talks in silly voices to make my son laugh. (He sometimes dances too!)
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he wrestles with his son, even though he knows that his son has a black belt in TKD and could hurt him.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he wrestles with my son so he doesn’t feel left out and not important.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he takes his children to work with him every Sunday during his Labor Day Weekend sale to teach them about working hard and responsibility.

• My boyfriend is a bad father because sometimes he’s too tired to cook so he takes the kids out to eat.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he limits our kids to one soda per day. And they aren’t allowed coffee at all.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he makes a point to ask all four kids how their days went.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he helps his children with their homework. And mine too.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because when I need help with something involving my kids, he’s there no questions asked.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he supports every thing his children want to attempt, from trying new sports to picking up a new instrument. He encourages them.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he takes his kids to school every morning so he has extra time with them since his time with them is extremely limited.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because when I’m sick, he helps takes care of my kids.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he knows my son can be difficult and a handful and yet still chooses to be with me and love my son when he could walk away.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he deals with my daughter’s moodiness.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he asks his children what they want to have for their lunches and dinners each week.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he gives his children medicine when they’re sick.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he used to stop and get my son medicine if I had run out when he was on his way to my old house. And he NEVER complained.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he’s teaching our sons how to respect women.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he’s teaching our daughters how to respect themselves.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he’s teaching our children that bullying at any age is wrong.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he’s teaching our children that lying is not good and honesty is best. We don’t tolerate lies in our house.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because despite all the outside influences causing him stress, he doesn’t take it out on our children.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he is trying to teach our children to find the silver lining in bad situations.
• My boyfriend is a bad father for teaching all four kids to stand up for the others in their family. And for those at school who get picked on.
• My boyfriend is a bad father for correcting our children when they call one of their siblings names. Namecalling is not allowed in our home.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he doesn’t approve of his kids or mine having a Facebook account.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he monitors his kids’ friends to make sure none are bad influences.
• My boyfriend is such a bad father that even his daughter’s friends call him ‘Dad’. Or they say they’re his other daughters.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he allows his kids to use his phone to text their friends. And he monitors their texts.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he doesn’t allow our daughters to wear skimpy, revealing clothing.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he sometimes yells at his kids when they do misbehave…but always feels bad for doing so afterwards.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he hates seeing his children cry. It breaks his heart.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he does not approve of his children walking home from school because of the sick perverts in this world.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he taught his kids how to fish.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he wants all four kids walking at night to help support me and Mikala’s MS walk at the end of September.
• My boyfriend is a bad father because he plays video games with his kids.

Just for clarification purposes, I DO NOT think my boyfriend is a bad father. This post is meant to be very tongue-in-cheek. I think my boyfriend is an amazing father, and my kids and I are absolutely blessed to have him in our lives, as are his two. I’ve included a few pics showing the type of father he is. And there are SO MANY more but I can’t post them because his children are in them.

I honestly wish you all could see how much he dotes on his children. And how he worries about them when they’re gone. I wish you all could see the man I know…the father our children know.

If you have not done so yet, you can check out my list on the reasons I’m a horrible, no good, very bad mom. Please feel free to leave a comment about why your children’s dad/stepdad is the worst.